How can I tell how he really feels about me?

He would never tell. We men are not good on verbal communication. My advice is to pay attention to his actions towards you. Is he kind, to you, not just by words?. Remember actions speak louder than words.!! When you say, you like something.(say a special brand of candy etc). Does he surprise you, bringing them? Does he have details with you? Does he take out for dinner once in a while? Does he hug you only when you hug him, or just when he feels it? Does he have a constant communication with you? (calling you each day) A man who cares has a constant communication, has details, and you can see by his actions if he is honest or not.